SUCK LESS AT MEETING NEW GIRLS - 10 WORD THAT COULD CHANGE YOUR LIFE
Guys who are always complaining about not being able to meet girls… let me HELP YOU.
You are overthinking everything. You know the guys who are like “i hate going to the club there’s just a bunch of sluts and guys on E fist pumping to drop shots, and those are the guys the girls choose” yeah YOU if u have ever said anything remotely similar to that let me help you out. THESE WORDS COULD CHANGE YOUR WHOLE LIFE.
FIRST you have to either be not visually off putting upon first appearance… if you know you are ugly and you can’t do anything to dodge that first impression of ‘OH MY GOD i dont want to have to look at you anymore… Get this person out of my line of sight!’ THEN don’t let your horrible looks make you give up, take your frustration and channel it to making money. Because it doesn’t matter if you look like DiCaprio and Joseph Gordon-Levitt had a baby together and you are the product of this weird impossible creation of science and manly good looks, the richest guy at the bar who is aware of their value of being valuable will win everyime.
Girls would you rather be with a guy who has 6 pack abs, a chisel chin with a face of a god and a penis the size of a horses or a guy with 50million in his chequings account?
WHAT your amazing manly good looks just went out the window, money buys stuff. No money buys you free stuff.
So if you are an average looking guy who likes to lie to himself and thinks that he’s a nice guy and would make a great boyfriend and that it sucks that all the pricks with muscles at the clubs are getting all the girls, here is what you do to change that.
STOP saying shit like that, that is your problem, you are speaking too much. IF you consider yourself nice, and enough that you would list that as one of your own personality traits then just stop now. YES girls want a nice guy in theory, but they sure as fuck don’t want a guy who just listed being nice as one of his main personality traits in life. SAY things like focused, ambitious, hard working, and I LOVE ANIMALS. Enough said right there, you win, “Sorry Larry I know you think you are nice, but… he’s a hard worker.. and he loves animals… i would be less direct with you Larry but i don’t have to worry about that because you are nice, and you won’t be rude to me. See i like guys who give me reasons to do things so they aren’t rude to me. I need to earn being treated nice… i don’t want some guy who’s just going to be nice to any girl he meets lol.”
SOOO this is how you change your approach… introduce MYSTERY and less talking… they kind of go hand in hand as in you CREATE mystery by not talking.
IF your regular approach to a girl goes something like this then you know you fit the bracket.
You see a good looking girl out in a store, she seems to be by herself and you approach… after a lot of self pushing yourself… and you walk up and say something like…
"hey i just saw you while you were shopping and thought wow she is so beautiful it would be dumb of me not to go talk to her right now…"
Actually not that… that’s pretty good and would probably work…
Okay take 2… if you would say something like…
"Hey, I’M nice, and was wondering if I could get your number or add you on this popular trending site right now and maybe we could possibly get to know each other."
You know that amazing feeling of being unsure and not knowing what you want? NO? WHY? Because that’s not an amazing feeling and you pretty much just tried to pitch that feeling FOR A WHOLE RELATIONSHIP. Let’s dissect…
i was wondering… so u weren’t even sure, just wondering…
if i could - if you could, you would.
"your number, contact info" WHATS WRONG WITH RIGHT NOW? is that not ultimately what you really want?
MAYBE - MAYBE MEANS MAYBE
COULD POSSIBLY - could you possibly… try…. possibly could you possibly try to make your penis seem any smaller with your choice of words.
Girls are unsure about everything, walking up to one and telling her that YOU’RE UNSURE of even talking to her isn’t a winning formula, 2 negatives don’t equal a positive.
OKAY WHAT SHOULD I SAY?
AS LITTLE AS POSSIBLE, we are all shitty people, everyone I know in my life I consider a shitty person, so you want that shittiness to be mysterious, because eventually if they get to know u and get to know your true personality, your fucked, why do u think the divorce ratio is going up every year, technology is just helping everyone find out how shitty everyone else is.
SO YOU WANT HER TO NOT KNOW HOW SHITTY YOU ARE RIGHT AWAY.
and what’s the secret to that, well it’s the same things that allows people to wear big sunglasses and try freaky shit in bed… confidence!
BE CONFIDENT and MYSTERIOUS in the sense that you are confident in your choice of words.
SAY SOMETHING LIKE
I DON’T LIKE SHOPPING
No hello, no excuse me just walk up to her and be like “I DON’T LIKE SHOPPING!”
She will either think 1 of 2 things, i can change you OR good that means more shopping for me.
THEN say something like. I LIKE YOU.
yup say I DONT LIKE SHOPPING.. DOT DOT DOT I LIKE YOU.
this explains EVERYTHING RIGHT AWAY, she can connect the dots that you dont know her but you like her, which means she passes your visual test. BUT PEOPLE aren’t usually this blunt, and this guy just walked up to me and said that… WHY? THUS CREATING THE MYSTERY!
THEN CLOSE IT UP WITH A “lets do something”
Don’t ask, but guide. DO SOMETHING COULD MEAN ANYTHING and depending on her imagination it could be anything. Which is probably better than whatever you could actually think to suggest.
SO LETS REVIEW.
I DON’T LIKE SHOPPING. I LIKE YOU. LETS DO SOMETHING.
10 MAGICAL WORDS that could change your whole life.